I know it sounds like an oxymoron, but some sissies out there are so shy they can’t even bring themselves to call me! It’s a good thing we’ve got sexytexting around for those sweet little shy sissy things, right? Also, I’ve recently had a few take me up on my sensual domination email package to discuss their naughty-but-nice sissy dreams and desires. Poor things, one let me know that even sexytexting was a bit intimidating for her!

The Typical Shy Sissy

Now let’s see if you find yourself in this shortlist of common qualities. It’s obviously not absolute or all that extensive, but these are things I’ve noticed over and over again throughout my career as a phone mistress:

• Most of you are single and actually have a lot of privacy to indulge your sissy side.
• Over half of you have no desire to be with a man. You’d rather be, for lack of a better term, a girl’s gurl.
• Your interest in humiliation or having any mention made of your ‘man parts’ is minimal.
• Your style leans towards the very soft — more pink-and-white candy sweetness than pink-and-black vampy sluttiness.
• You need to feel lovingly but firmly “owned”.
  

How I Handle Sweet Shy Sissies

Sometimes my purpose in your life is to get your out of your own head and into your own panties! Sissification *can* be a wonderful escape from the heaviness of real life, if you just let it. Get out of your own way and stop worrying about what the world thinks of sissies and just be what you are behind closed doors, without the fear of judgment. The only thing I’ll be “judging” is whether you look better in bikinis or hipsters or thongs! My agenda is to make your sissy time the best part of your day – and life, for that matter.

Popular Activities & Instructions for My Sissies

Picking a mistress when you’re so sweet and submissive can be daunting – you want so badly to be an owned sissy, but the chemistry and approach need to be right. Hopefully reading my blog can help you out with the likelihood of sissy mistress chemistry, but sometimes a 20-minute call is all it takes to establish the right connection.

As for the approach…I tend to be pretty practical. I want to see you make progress, and that means giving you instructions, assignments, and other forms of solid guidance. Some things I do with a lot of my sissies and other submissives to make them more *mine* include designating a masturbation mantra specific to the sissy/sub, and establishing non-sexual habits that align with my own as a form of devotion.

With most sissies, I love to roleplay a spa / salon / make-up / fashion consultant who knows how to turn you into the woman you should be. But with a shy sissy, it’s not so much roleplaying. It’s about coaxing you along your journey with specific grooming and beauty tips that I expect you to attempt during or between phone sessions. All you have to do is let me know if your sissiness that day is about fantasy or reality, and I’ll take you there!

Girly Assignments That Work For The Shy Ones

I really want you to flourish, and that means keeping your sissy focus even when we’re not on calls. I’ve come up with a number of ways for you to do that because you need the nurturing and cajoling more than most (yes, I know that about you). You can see everything I’ve got in the Phone Sex Assignment store, but this is how I would suggest using them with a shy or privacy-deprived (deprivacy? lol) sissy…

Sissy Journaling – Such a great way to explore and discover what’s happening on the inside, and to keep track of what you’re doing on the outside!
Email Domination – Can be used in a day, a week, or basically whenever your 10-pack runs out. Especially good when you need advice or just have to share something that got your panties a bit moist.
Candy Cocksucking – Even if you don’t want to talk about it openly, sometimes you’re secretly curious. This is a fun way to practice without any need for sissy-angst!
All-Day Texting – Going shopping (in person or online) and need a little advice? Make sure I’m going to be around when you do this, then text me pics of outfits or lipstick colors or whatever for my opinion. We should be able to get through a few good ones in 25 texts!