The #1 indicator I have found that a man has cuckold leanings is….drum roll, please…. curiosity about his woman’s sex with the ex. When we (men or women) don’t want to hear about sex with past partners, we’re pretty good at shutting that conversation down. So if a man doesn’t do that, I know a kinky door has just opened.
Do You Focus On Cock Size?
Interest in the dirty details of dick dimensions is not enough to determine whether or not you’re a potential cuckold. I have yet to meet a man who didn’t wonder how his equipment compares to others, whether they’re attached to an ex or anyone else. But if your interest comes across as something other than simple insecurity, there’s probably more to it.
Or Do You Focus on the Sex?
You’re just full of questions about what the, ahem, ins and outs of sex with an ex were like. What position did he like best, how many orgasms did he give you, was it the biggest/thickest/best cock you’ve ever had? A vanilla woman might demure a bit to spare your feelings, but a mistress like me knows that you’re trying to put together a mental porno of the whole scene – a porno starring your wife and another man. And you’re rock hard. Which mean’s you are —
A Cuckold In the Making!
That erection from running the wifey porno reel through your head – that’s cuckold excitement, pure and simple. You may not be a cuckold husband yet, but damn, you are ready for it! It might be time to drop a very subtle hint that perhaps she should maintain a friendship with that ex đ
Keep it sassy!
– Claire –
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This was a great post Mistress Claire. There is no doubt that i should be a cuckold but i am not capable of even keeping a women long enough to cuckold me. i could be either a cuckold or a slave. i know i am not a man.
You make an excellent point, there’s just not enough to you to generate even short-term interest. That’s quite a dilemma!
You might be a cuckold if….wow we can add so much to this cant we Ms Claire? Cuckolds are so multi dimensional especially when it comes to cock size…lol, but not theirs, that’s for sure!
I had to stop myself from writing a novel on the subject, lol.
Miss Claire,
You are so right. Back when I was married, one of my recurring fantasies was my wife with another man. At first it was a fictional bull. Then, as time went on, my fantasies went into the realm of âhow real can I make this fantasy?â As you said, the ex BFs came to mind. I brought it up once in an attempt to verbally play in bed and she was not into it at all, so I let it go. Our marriage started to falter and before long, we were both cheating (unbeknownst to each other). Itâs not that she wasnât into it, she just didnât want to share it with me. At first it was an ex, Then a local cop. Her reasons (I found out later) were multiple. As our marriage became difficult, she looked for an emotional connection. And that led to them doing the horizontal mambo. Then it became a desire for regular sex, as I wasnât holding up my end of the bargain in the bedroom (both with size and frequency). Lucky for her, Officer Huge Cock was happy to âserve and protectâ her libido on a very regular basis. And having a cock twice as big as mine (I saw a dick pic on her phone????)made it all the better. That went on for some time. Eventually, our marriage ended. But, we are actually great friends now. It was never a verbal thing where she talked about it. Although towards the end, she stopped hiding it and let me find evidence of her affairs. I found that totally hot!!!! To this day, her fucking other guys gets me all hot and bothered. #lovebeingacuckold. Thanks for this great post.
Now that is turning some very sad lemons into fantastic lemonade. And you, as a fire fighter, clearly got a bonus kick out of being cuckolded by a cop! And not just any cop, but Officer Huge Cock đ
I see you know of the rivalry. Turns out he was coming to the house on duty while I was at work. Technically I was paying him to fuck my wife with my tax dollars. Once we put the marriage behind us and I opened up about my fantasies, she was more than happy to share. And she shared LOTS of details!????