Long before the term “habit stacking” became popularized by all the productivity gurus, I’ve been assigning it to my phone sex subbies. There’s just nothing quite like making sure a man does what he’s supposed to do by mixing in a little sexy tease! We all know that controlling a cock essentially controls everything about the man attached to it, so why not use it to everyone’s benefit? And by “everyone”, I do absolutely mean everyone – you, your wife, your phone mistress, your supervisor, everyone.

What is Habit Stacking?

If the term is unfamiliar to you (most likely because you’re not into reading self-help books like Get Things Done by David Allen, or Atomic Habits by James Clear), it is basically a way of mixing your existing habits with things you want to incorporate into your day. Those new things can be unavoidable obligations or more reward-like. The point is to get you to do things ‘on automatic’ and reduce all the dithering over what you need to do, what you should do next, stuff like that. Take away the need to consciously make those micro-decisions, and you’ll get more done.

How to Make Your Morning Routine KINKY

The possibilities for this are so much fun, my fingers are flying on this keyboard, lol. I love fucking around with your habits and putting my mark on your routines. Some tasks are subtle and not overtly kinky at all – but they make you think of ME, consciously or subconsciously, every time you do it. I might add a whole new activity, or I might just tweak something you’re already doing to suit MY preferences. Are you starting to see where habit stacking can take on a little sexiness?

Look at your existing morning routine: alarm goes off, scroll your phone for 10 minutes, shave, take shower, get dressed, make coffee, eat breakfast, brush teeth. You’ve been doing it like this for years, you don’t even have to think about it – you’re half-asleep for most of it anyway. Let’s say you’re into tease and denial, maybe with a little naughty CBT thrown in for some variety. Your new stack would look something like this – original habit in black, sexy add-ons in green italics:

1. Scroll your phone for 10 minutes while holding a pillow between your thighs.
2. Shave with the ladies version of your favorite razor, e.g. Gillette Fusion ➡️ Venus
3. Take a shower, beginning with one devotional stroke-to-the-edge for me.
4. When you step out of the shower, is the toilet seat up or down? If up, smack your balls 5x with a hairbrush
5. Get dressed.
6. Make coffee, doing dishes while it brews. Keep your dick pressed against the counter/cabinet.
7. Eat breakfast.
8. Brush your teeth while simultaneously stroking for your second edge of the day. Yes, coordination will be difficult.

Let Miss Claire dicktate your new habits!

Yes, you can totally DIY a sexy new morning or evening routine – it’s certainly better than whatever you’re doing now! But can you think of a better person to kinkify your day in lots of little ways than a mistress? Especially THIS mistress, who has a very mischievous streak and lots of wicked ideas? We can do through phone calls or text sessions, but this is also ripe for doing through an email package as well.

Whichever way you want to do it, we’ll first discuss your weaknesses – porn, social media, eating junk food, chronic masturbation, housework. Doesn’t matter if it’s sexual or mundane, just as long as you want to change it. Then once a week, you will call/text/email for a new addition to your habits – but JUST ONE. There is no point going on a habit stacking binge, it won’t work at all. Sometimes there will be a direct link to your weakness, sometimes it’ll be about binding you a little closer to me, sometimes it will be just for the hell of it.

If your cock is twitching with curiosity…you know what to do 😏