The Girlfriend Experience Podcast Ep3: Chastity
by Claire | May 6, 2020 | Chastity, GFE |
Chastity within a relationship can take on many fun purposes, from mitigating fear of cheating to controlling masturbation. In this episode, Kellie & I have a fun chat about how we each handle it with our guys.
To Cage or Not
So many reasons to cage, where to begin! Oh I know – I’ll start with when NOT to cage. That’s a pretty easy answer for me. If the guy is an utterly devoted submissive, then he wouldn’t dream of touching himself without permission. But I suspect most of our special caller-boyfriends don’t have that level of self-control.
Guys Need Chastity
That cock makes all but the most devoted subs completely untrustworthy. I lived in NYC long enough to know that men are very, shall we say, opportunistic. If they think they can get away with something, they will try. Caging that little beast solves a lot of relationship issues.
Also, I’ve had issues with boyfriends who masturbate when I’m more than happy to have sex with them. The guilty look when I catch them is priceless, but damnit, that cock is meant for ME, right? And yet when I mention this, they have the gall to say “oh, sometimes I just want a snack, not a whole meal” and I’m like, hey, quickies are fine with me and you know that! Besides, if he cums now, he’s probably done for the day. Ah, the joys of dating men over the age of 25!
I even wrote a blog post about how I like to punish chronic masturbators with excessive masturbation as a total aversion therapy mindfuck. I mean, these are guys who jerk off one to three times A DAY, and I have them at least do double that. So by the end of that day, they’re practically begging for a period of chastity!
Chastity Cages
I must admit, I kind of like anything metal. Not only do they seem more, y’know hygienic, but they look SO medieval! I’ve been to a really cool Museum of Medieval Crime in Rothenberg, Germany – of course Germany, it’s one of the kinkiest nations on the planet! – and it had all kinds of instruments of bodily punishment, from mild to extreme. And it annoyed me that all the chastity devices on display were for WOMEN. So a nice, small METAL cage for men is perfect!
For non-metal types, I like the Holy Trainer. I get a kick out of their description on their website for improvements to their 2020 models – they’ve increased “the comfort and RELIABILITY”. Reliability…heh, you know that sucker is going to stay the hell ON. And with that non-metal material, guys can’t try to talk their way out of it when they’ve got air travel lined up. Just like little 3oz bottles, they’re TSA compatible, lol.
Keyholding
I handle the key situation in one of two ways. Most of the time I have them keep their key in their office desk. That way it takes conscious planning to get out of that cage and eliminates the possibility of giving into a random urge to jerk it. It is a moment of pause. The only downside to that is if I want to let him out of the cage for one night over the weekend…then there’s a chance he’ll take advantage of having the key.
My other method is to have him freeze it in a container of water with a piece of aluminum foil in the water – so he can’t microwave it. The time it takes to melt naturally or, ahem, dishonestly, is so much that the guy has the opportunity to realize the error of his ways. It’s something, anyway.
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Hi Mistress Claire, Both you and Mistress Kellie have a great podcast as both you work well together. It is very fun to listen to. Some guys just need chastity because they are to small to ever give pleasure. Any male under 4 inches should be in chastity. Since they will never give pleasure to a women then they should never get pleasure themselves.
That’s a great point – lock up anything we find useless (as per Episode 2 on Penis Size)!
If the “big three” of theology are Faith, Hope and Charity — then I surmise that the big three of LDW might be Fantasy, Hard-on and Chastity. I’ll take the first two, please.
Oh Nancy, you get antsy if you go 4 days – chastity is definitely not for you lol.
Well, antsy I may get — but I don’t think you call me chronic [except in my desire to make you “happy”]
Are you and Kellie posing in your underwear for the banner photo?