Have you ever thought about what a girlfriend experience (GFE) with a mistress might be like? It’s not something you can just sign up for, as in, “Hi mistress, I want to be your phone boyfriend”…though that certainly works as a GFE roleplay! It happens much as it does in real life, evolving naturally from things like frequency of contact – in this case, phone calls – and personal chemistry. It’s something that GFE phone sex and regular dating have in common. So where does this sugar dating concept fit in?

Let’s say that you tend to like long-ish calls a few times a week with the same mistress. Well, chances are you’ll get to experience more than just her domme side just as she will likely learn more about the complete man behind the sub. None of us are that one-dimensional – which might just be a fancy way of saying that we all wear yoga pants at least some of the time, lol. Now for the sugar kick to this…you might want to make sure those yoga pants are new, primo Lululemon ones.

What is Sugar Dating?

You’ve heard of Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, so you probably have an inkling of what Sugar Dating entails. A Venn diagram would show a huge area of overlap – the woman is usually quite a bit younger than the man, the material benefits are significant, and there should be genuine mutual attraction. The main differences are that sugar dating tends to be more casual & light-hearted, and sometimes more overt about the benefits. My overall feelings on the subject: if you’re looking for casual sex or friends with benefits anyway, wouldn’t you rather be treated and spoiled like a princess for a night/month/season by a man who values you (quite literally) rather than one who doesn’t?

How Do You Sugar Date A Mistress?

Sugar dating a mistress is surprisingly easy, though rather than think of you as a Sugar Daddy (c’mon, let’s be real, my age begins with a 4 lol), I prefer to think of you as a Sugar Sub. I don’t demand that you call me or shower me with gifts and attention – I’m “sassy classy” not “sassy crassy”! But here’s where the difference kicks in: When you’re calling often and spoiling me already, I’ll feel free to nudge you on both of those for my own purposes. Maybe I’m in the mood to ruin an orgasm because I haven’t done that all week – I know you’ll do that for me. Maybe I have a sudden expense, and you’d like to ease that burden a bit through a tribute or relevant gift card.

Another common aspect of a sugar relationship is mentoring. In theory, it’s because younger women have a lot to learn, but I would argue that we all have something to learn from each other. In my preferred phone GFE dynamic, I find that the sharing of knowledge goes both ways and I really enjoy that! As you may know, I recently moved to a new state just before the pandemic hit, so I haven’t had a chance to socialize at all yet. This means that an intelligent sub meets my intellectual needs too 🙂

Pour Some Sugar On Me

Hah, did you think I was about to put out a link to my wishlist, give details of gift cards I want, instruct you on how to leave a Virtual Bouquet for me? Nooooo…you’re bright enough to figure all that out if you want to. I just wanted to leave you with this silly tidbit: Whenever I hear the terms “sugar dating” and “sugar baby”, this Def Leppard song starts playing in my head: