“Mistress, what are your favorite fetishes? Which ones really rev your engine?” … I hear this question from a lot of new-to-me phone sex callers. It’s not an easy one to answer because the list of common fetishes I DIS-like is way shorter (I feel another blog post coming on, lol). My honest answer is that I really love pushing your hot buttons, no matter what they are. Hearing your breath change, the wet squelch of furious stroking, the occasional round of begging – these are proof of my power over your penis and I love it!

So here’s my “Cinco de Kinko” favorite fetishes list. If you don’t see your kink on this list, it doesn’t mean I’m not into it. C’mon silly, didn’t you just read above that I love the power, and toying with your fetish(es) is my way of achieving that? Also, this list is in no particular order.

Roleplaying

I love this one because it’s like improv acting, where we feed off each other and build the fantasy. I’m the one who knows whether the scenario will end in an orgasm, but exactly how we get there is something that just…unfolds. The secretary who’s got the goods on her boss, the nurse at the sperm milking – ahem – donation center, the hot wife just back from her first BBC liaison – the possibilities are limited only by our imaginations, and mine is pretty wild!

Feminization

Ever since I dated a closet crossdresser, I’ve had a thing for all kinds of femme-men. Sissies, crossdressers, pantyboys, transgirls, you name it! I have a soft spot for those who want head-to-toe detailed transformation fantasies, or need feminization guidance to satisfy their cravings without trashing their lives, or prance around on Skype cam for me to laugh at and tease. You gurls are so much fun to play with!

Masturbation Humiliation

Combining these two cracks me up in the most evil-mistress way! In case you’re not sure what I mean, I have the kinkster perform a ridiculous task in order to ‘earn’ permission to masturbate, or while masturbating. For example, I tweeted yesterday that in honor of May The 4th Be With You / Star Wars Day, you could only play with your light sabre while watching Star Wars parody porn. Well apparently you all got busy – laughing! Laughing so hard you couldn’t keep it up, lol. Anyway, that’s a perfect example of how this favorite fetish of mine goes 🙂

CBT with Ruined Orgasm

When the infliction of erotic pain to your cock, balls and nipples isn’t just a kinky rush for you, it brings out the ‘strict mistress’ in me. As I’ve said in past posts on the topic of CBT, there’s a thrill for me in punishing the root cause of all your naughtiness (watching porn! upskirting! staring at innocent legs!). And ruining your orgasm after all that torment has just got to be the most perfect femdom “happy ending” ever! If I’ve ever ruined you on a call, you know what I mean 😉

Kinky Confessions & Conversation

The story of how you ‘found’ your fetish and how it developed over the years is an endless source of fascination for me. And there’s a special place in my heart for those of you who had just one experience or one brief period of discovery decades ago that continues to replay itself in your fantasies (oh, the things we get up to in college dorms!). So if you like a sexually open and honest woman who likes to share her often unusual perspective on your situation, I just might make a great match for you!