I’ve been on the receiving end of some fantastic and not-so-fantastic body worship experiences in the past 15 years, so I feel like something of an expert. They span many trysts with a true body worship artist to poorly-disguised trickery to gain access to my feet, with a lot of good stuff in between. From this abundance of anecdotal evidence, I’ve determined that there are two distinct kinds of body worshippers – the fetishists and the pleaser-submissives. Let’s see which one resonates with you…

Body Worship Fetishists Only Want One Part

First, a little definition of “fetish”. It refers to the sexualization of an object or body part not ‘normally’ associated with arousal. While it technically indicates that the fetishist can’t get off without having that item present, common usage has altered that to mean that s/he would just really like it to be part of sex. In other words, having a “thing for feet” is often expressed as having a foot fetish. Okay, that’s enough with the semantics.

So…a guy who’s really into kissing ass, sucking toes, massaging ears, etc has a very distinct fetish for one body part. He wants to experience all of the asses/toes/ears that he possibly can. This is more about HIS arousal than HER pleasure, though an ideal situation makes both happen. For the record, fellas, wrist to shoulder is about my only non-erogenous zone. Sorry, elbow worshippers! Lol.

Remember the foot fetish trickery I mentioned above? I agreed to go to dinner with an Italian man, who claimed to just want to practice his English. This was in NYC and it was indeed a super-nice dinner, I’ll give him that. With wine. Which is how we ended up in his hotel room with him conjuring up the need to apologize and announcing, “I should kiss your feet to show my sincerity!” At that point, he dove lips first onto feet as I stood there wondering what in the world was happening. Did I mention this was before I came into my dominance, and experiences like this contributed to my evolution in that direction? Mm hmm, it’s true.

Pleaser-Submissives Are All About Giving Pleasure

A pleaser-submissive is all about doing whatever gives the woman pleasure, and he has discovered one of the best ways to do that is through body worship. It’ll be a foot rub after a long day in heels, scratching her back gently because he knows it relaxes her, that sort of thing. Once he learns that she has a “sweet spot” that relaxes her and maybe arouses her, he won’t forget. He will experiment with different ways to stimulate her and hone in on those that work best. It’s all about making her feel better by treating her body – or individual parts – with the care and attention she deserves.

Enter “Nylon Nancy” – while the nickname accurately implies that he likes wearing lingerie, that bit of fun falls second to pleasing a woman through body worship. I asked him how he got into this delicious service submissive kink, and he responded with:

My attraction is primarily on what seems to give you pleasure. Yes, feet are a focus area based on my love of seeing a woman in beautiful heels and stockings. Add a short skirt and I enjoying letting my eyes roam up her legs — so the feet start the journey to other delights. If you didn’t express pleasure in my attentions to your feet, I wouldn’t spend time on them. My goal is to make you happy.

Nylon Nancy has also discovered the joys of dropping kisses on my ass, occasionally taking it a bit further than just kisses in our phone sex sessions. And I have a funny feeling that after he reads how basically every body part would enjoy his tender attentions, he might explore further – except for my arms 😉

Which Body Worship Style Is “Better”?

You might think the pleaser-submissive is the better body worship choice, but it really depends on the woman’s intentions. If I was in the mood to have a man give me a pedicure then rub my feet for an hour, I’d want a “specialist” – the foot fetishist who lives for such opportunities! But if my mood was more about feeling appreciated and worshipped, I’d reach out to a submissive like Nylon Nancy, who has articulated clearly how important my happiness is. It’s fun being a mistress and having access to all types and styles!